Thursday, August 30, 2018

Marraxtí – Week 16…Big changes and the weeks are flying by! 💨🌸



Hey everyone! How is it going?! 

Well the week has gone by so quickly that I could hardly keep up with it, lol. We are now working with the members a lot more. Missionary work is taking full force here with the members from each branch. The goal is to be a stake by 2020 so we are all working hard for that. Finding the elder isn't easy, but it's definitely worth it. 

We are trying to help a couple people as much as we can. Just when it seems they are progressing, Satan just hits them hard and they go flying backwards. Snap, it's hard but we are doing the best we can with receiving inspiration from the Lord for his children. 

Well this week was also a knife to the heart. Why? Well two friends just got their mission call, two got married and one came back from the mission. It kinda feels like everyone and their lives are moving forward and mine is at a standstill. But I am actually happy because I can keep mine on hold so that others can have theirs for eternity. It's a pretty neat trade off. 

I have been practicing my ukulele skills, so I am progressing in that matter. Although I am far from perfect, knowing some is better than none, right? A huge miracle for me was that j was able to progress in my Spanish some more. I thought I could put off learning subjunctive imperfect until after my mission. But that's not true. So, I finally started to study it and I just felt myself back on the path of learning and being better, so I am really excited about that. All those who speak Spanish know what I am talking about. Those of you who don't, I won't take the time because I don't even know what I would say to explain it. Just know that its not my cup of tea (or apple juice) 

Questioned to answers....
Did you get any mail at Zone Conference?
I did get some mail. They were the best, the k you so much. I love the weight scale for the luggage. Hahaha! My companion also found one in piso but I never knew what it was for. But that's okay. Mine is smaller and more advanced.

Did you get the sheet music I sent you? 
I do get the ukulele music. Some sheets don't have chords on them. I guess I'll just have to figure out which ones they are, lol. 

Did you get a picture with Presidente Galli?
I didn't see him see him in Sunday like I thought so I never got a photo with him. Shoot! 

How is it that you are able to sing at so many Zone Conferences?
I am usually asked to sing at Zone Conferences. We have some really great singers so it's fun singing with them. 

What is your favorite thing to eat from Spain?
My favorite thing to eat in Spain is probably some bandeja pisa. It's pork with beans, salad and rice. Delicious! 

What is the thing that you miss the most?
The thing that I miss the most is my family and my grandma's chocolate chip cookies. I tried to make them here and they just don't come out the same. Lol. 

What is the thing that you are looking forward to the most this week?
The thing that I am looking forward to this week is it being over! Lol. Actually, I am looking forward to a Noche de Hogar that we will have with the senior missionary couple that is serving here. They are so much fun! 

A big change happened here. Our district leader in Inca is getting called to the office to to be in charge of the blog for the mission with another missionary. So now another elder is the District leader and an elder from Palma will go to Inca and a member who is serving a mini mission will go to be the companion of the elder in Palma. So a lot of changes going on already. Next stop is me going to the North of Spain! I actually don't know. It's not canonized scripture. 😄

Well for this preparation day we just relaxed mostly. We went to a park by the ocean and ate, sang some music and rested. Now I am in a burger king eating some food, lol! 

Well that's about it for today! I love you all and I wish you all the best of luck. Keep the faith and do your best! 

Love Elder Maybury 

The Elders of the Baleareas District


P-Day on The Coast
This is the last of our original district (Baleareas District) 









ummm, I don't know what type of sorcery this is...!


Practicing some new photography shots




With Branch President Alan Bejarano


With Elder Hughes


With Elder Rodriguez who is leaving



Well, time is sure going faster.  Both here in the states and in Spain.  As Elder Maybury has stated in his past couple of emails, the days are going quicker for him as are the weeks.  He is on the downward slope of his mission, with only 9 months left, and that tends to happen.  One thing that I tell him often, and stress much more as the time ticks down, is to “leave it all on the pitch”.  This is a saying that comes from his rugby coach (pitch = field).  This means to give everything you have, all of your blood, sweat and tears, to the game and leave it on the pitch and have no regrets once the game is finished.  This is my counsel to him often.  To work so hard that if it were your last day in the field, you would have no regrets because nothing would be left undone.  Your knees should be stronger from praying often.  Your feet should be tired from walking where directed by the Lord.  Your voice should be gone from sharing the word of the Lord in every moment you are able.  Your heart should rest with the people you are serving.  And your tears should be on the shoulders of all those you taught and loved as you served in the vineyard of the Lord. 

He gets it. 

He works hard.  The work is hard for sure.  Especially on the island, but he loves his area so much.  He loves the people.  He loves the work. 

Knowing somewhat of the work that my son is doing and knowing the physical and emotional toll that it takes to work, serve and love so much, I can say that I am proud of my son.  I say that often, I know.  But I see new reasons to be proud of him each week.  It is very possible that he will be transferred in a couple of weeks and get off the island and go back to urban areas of Spain.  The fact that he doesn’t want to be transferred is a good sign.  At least, it’s a sign that he loves the people he is serving.  This is his 4th area and truth be told, he was sad to leave the people in each area.  I am happy for him because he means he has made connections.  He has met and taught those that the Lord put in his path.  I can tell you from experience, those people will forever be in his heart.  The people I served are still in my heart, 25 years later.  I know their faces.  I know their names.  We will always be friends.  This was something I wanted for my son and I am so grateful that he is connecting through service and love.


Another thing that I am VERY grateful for is for my son using and sharing his gift and love of singing.  He gets asked to sing often and I am so grateful that he has built up his confidence to be able to do so.  He sang twice this past week.  Once at Zone Conference and once at the priesthood session of stake conference.  Here is the video of one of those songs.  I loved this song so much because he has a solo and I can hear his voice so well that I BEAM when I listen to it…and then I cry because I AM SO PROUD OF HIM!!!

It should be noted that his companion is unfamiliar with the ZOOM on the camera, apparently, and somehow cut off the song before the end, but I forgive him.  *haha* 



He thanks you for your love and prayer and for cheering him on.  Thank you for loving our son.  

If you would like to send Elder Maybury a card or letter, you may do so at the following address:


Elder Alexander J. Maybury

Spain Barcelona Mission

C/ Calatrava 10-12, bajos

08017 Barcelona

Spain


Each card/letter will require one international stamp = $1.15 / up to one ounce




Emailed: August 27th





Thursday, August 23, 2018

Marraxtí – Week 15…This week went by fast! 💫



Hello everyone! How are you all today? 

Well this week has flown by so fast! I can't really remember what we did but I'll do my best to describe it all. 

Last Friday we contacted for 2 hours straight and although it's not the worst of course, its downside doesn’t make it any fun. Not a whole lot of visible success, but you never know what you may have set up by doing what the Lord needs you to do. 

Paco and Ignacio blessed the sacrament for the first time on Sunday!!!!  Wow, it was great to watch them progress and help them in this mortal journey that we all make. We showed Paco how to prepare the Sacrament since he gave us a ride to church so he was there when we were doing it. 

We have been trying to meet with more of the members as well. The branch is doing good. They are now focusing themselves more on missionary work so that is a plus. 

The miracle of this week was that we were able to have a Family Home Evening with Lucy, who stopped investigating the church for a time but has now recently started meeting with us again. She is fantastic and already a good friend of mine (ours). 

For today, we went to the center (Plaza España), and I got me soma more LlaoLlao, of course. We had a mission to look for a stuffed bull for the niece of Elder Apodaca but we didn't find any surprisingly. But I did buy some things as well. Some more reminders of my journeys in Spain. Yay! 

Answers to questions...
How are things going with the new companion?
Me and my companion are doing great, or better at least. We are learning to work together more. Not that we don't, but we are always progressing, that's the key. 

How are you liking the charcoal toothpaste?
It's always fun to use the charcoal toothpaste. I do like it a lot.

Any word on when the next Zone Conference is?  Do you have any calendar for upcoming events? 
Zone Conference is this Friday at 9:30. As far as a calender goes, I don't know anything about that. I'm sorry. 

How is your pinkie toe doing?
Pinkie toe is good, it's growing but looks small. Hahaha. 

What makes you smile the most?
What makes me smile the most are the moments I feel the spirit really strongly and it's a feeling of how blessed I am for being here. And that's the smile that lasts. 

From the kids: Do you have to buy your food every day?
To the kids: I have to buy my food every Monday. It's kind of fun but stressful at the same time because I don't want to spend too much as well. 

Well that's about it for this week. I bought two shirts today because I was tired of wearing the same ones. One is a two-button up and another one is one that says California Huntington Beach on it and I love it. Sales are amazing! 

By the way, we got soaked as we were walking to the bus station to go to Soller, like a huge rainstorm and pelting rain. Completely drenched! No photo, sorry! 😢

I love this area and my purpose for being here. I count the blessings every day! God lives, and everything proves it! 

Love you all forever! 

Love Elder Maybury 

Found an AWESOME Sombrero
I would buy it if I didn't have to worry about luggage


Beautiful Spain
It's true! Jesus does love you! 

A Cathedral in Soller

A Street we Walk on every week

I love clouds! 


Me and My Companion - Elder Apodaca



He is asleep *shhh*


Someone Made Us Lasagna - Yummo! 


Selfie!!!  I love the fog and mountains in the back



Well this week seems to have had a few improvements in some areas, which is nice.  The work is certainly difficult at times and spending 2 hours trying to contact in the street keeps you humble, as a missionary.  We have all been there!

In some personal emails to me, Elder Maybury wrote of some struggles with trying to understand where his strengths are and ensuring that he is living up to his potential on his mission for the Lord.  In a few email exchanges back and forth, he was able to share more with me about his feelings and some of the changes that have been happening for him. 
He said:
Sólo quiero poner mi vida en armonía con la voluntad de Dios. Lo que él quiere, es lo que yo quiero. .... Y ESO es el cambio que vale la pena. Eso es el hombre que quiero ser. Quiero ser como mi padre celestial, pero también mi padre terrenal (shout out to dad 😍).”

TRANSLATION: “I only want to put my life in harmony with the will of the Lord.  What He wants is what I want.  And THIS is the change that matters.  This is the man that I want to be.  Like my Father in Heaven, but also like my earthly father (shout out to dad).” 

This is what we often refer to as a “change of heart”.  It is a change where you set aside all of your own needs, your will, your desires, so that you are free to do the will of the Lord.  This helps one to be more eager to serve others, to love without judgment, to give of oneself, to be more humble, to use your talents and skills to help, uplift and love others, and ultimately to live as the Savior lived, in full service of others. 

While it is hard to see my son struggle, at times, I know that the process of the struggle will make him stronger and will help him to have a clearer perspective.  The decision to serve was his.  He makes a daily choice to continue to serve.  He kneels each day and commits his time to the Lord and says, “what is Thy will?” and then he listens and goes and does what is needed.  This is the daily bootcamp, if you will, for personal spiritual development.  As a mere mortal mother, I could not do that for him.  I could not teach him all that he is learning about himself, about others, about the value of strengths and weaknesses, about the power of the Holy Ghost, and about his own infinite worth.  So, my small sacrifice was to let him go for 2 years and learn at the feet of the Savior, so-to-speak, in His vineyard, serving His sheep.  And for all of these 15 months that he has been serving, I have seen him grow from a young man excited to serve, to a man who is honored to serve. 

This mission has been the best thing for him, so he can test his mettle and HE can know his worth.  And it has been the best thing for our family.  So, we can support, uplift, and sustain this great work by supporting this wonderful young man.  It is an honor to be his mother.  It is an honor to watch him grow.  And, even though it is still hard, and I miss him like crazy, it is an honor to sacrifice my time with him so that he can serve the wonderful people of Spain. 


He thanks you for your love and prayers.  He thanks you for checking up on him and his mission.  It lifts him up in those difficult moments, to know that there are people back home who are cheering him on.  Thank you for loving our son and for being his cheerleaders a few thousands miles away.  

If you would like to send Elder Maybury a card or letter, you may do so at the following address:

Elder Alexander J. Maybury
Spain Barcelona Mission
C/ Calatrava 10-12, bajos
08017 Barcelona
Spain

Each card/letter will require one international stamp = $1.15 / up to one ounce



Emailed: August 20th