Monday, September 18, 2017

Mataró – Week 8…It’s all getting better


Hi!!!!! 

Well, another week has come and gone in Mataró. Some of the days were killing me like ‘when will it end’?  But other days it was really enjoyable. I am doing my best to work hard. I just finished 2nd Nephi in the Book of Morman, Spanish version. I am picking up and recognizing some new ways of saying things. Or how and in what ways things are said and how sentences are formed. Blessings!

I am so glad you got my letter in the mail. I wasn't sure if you already got it or I forgot to put it in or something. All of your letters are blessings and comfort to me. 

So here in Mataró, my Spanish is getting better I think. I can follow along in a conversation much more. I can get gospel phrases across pretty well. I am now trying to extend my vocabulary in the lessons so I can say new things so I don't repeat the same things over and over again. We have 2 good investigators who can get baptized.  We just need to ask them! Haha! The other two elders here are working hard. They seem to be getting investigators and setting baptismal dates fast. And to be honest, it frustrated me at first because I want that success. I know this area and I can't get someone to even stop and talk to me. I was jealous and angry and frustrated with myself and other people and discouraged. But as a missionary, I try to exemplify Christ every single day. So, I prayed to God for forgiveness and promised I wouldn't let it get me down. I started to tell myself to take joy in the other Elders success. Why should I be angry? I have no reason to. If anything, their success just makes me want to work harder to be better so I can do good as well. It's not a competition but rather a reminder of what hard work can do.  And we are all helping people no matter what. 

It is getting a lot cooler in Mataró. It has rained several times in the week. It's chilly enough to wear sweaters. Sweater weather! But it's beautiful none-the-less. I enjoy being here. I do my best to focus on the work and to improve each day. 

As for the earaches, they are better. Not as frequent or painful. The tooth isn't bothering me but I brush and floss very well every day and I use mouth wash often. I don’t want it spreading. It hurts at times and I try to not eat any junk food and if I do then I eat very little. 

I had an amazing miracle this week. The miracle that I saw this week was on Sunday. We do an English fast on Sundays and so when I was studying in the morning, I prayed to Father in Heaven that instead of reading Preach My Gospel in English, I would read it in Spanish and that I would understand what I was reading. So, when I prayed I made sure I was doing so and asking in faith. And when I started reading I was understanding it! There were a couple words that I didn't understand but I got the general idea of the section if not completely understanding the sentences. It was amazing. Then I asked if the same thing could happen in church as well. And this Sunday, while I didnt understand most of it, I understood a whole lot more than any other Sunday. I was getting just general ideas of what people were saying. And although it wasn’t all of it, I did understand some things and I know that that was because of the Lord. It was truly remarkable. I was very humbled by the experience. And then when I was reading emails, in three separate emails it talked about being preordained to come here and speak Spanish. About being fore ordained for this task. I was blown away. So, I know what the message is this week, and what I need to remember. Haha! 

My companion, Elder Graham, is the District leader so I see him planning some lessons for district meeting. I have given a lesson twice and one of them was when he asked me on the train to prepare one as we were heading to Girona. A little late but I rocked it. But of course, the Spirit guides me in the topic to choose and the words to say. So, I have to praise God every day because he blesses me and my family every day.

I love the long emails! I love hearing about everything. I miss everyone and I love them greatly. I am glad everyone is doing well and there are a lot of good experiences happening with major blessings. I pray for you all every day and night! I love you all a super lotta much!!!

With love, Elder Maybury. 

Hello family!  I love you all and miss you! 
"What do you mean you haven't sent me a letter yet?  Tsk Tsk." 
(caption added by mom)

These are pictures from our piso.








Ah!  What a great way to start the week!  Someone must have been paying attention to the pleas of missionary mothers across the world when they set the P-days as Mondays.  I absolutely LOVE Mondays! 💖

It is so good to hear from our son and to see that this week saw much improvement for him in his earaches, his toothache and his language.  For him, getting the language down is so important.  I have had to counsel him just a little bit on not being too hard on himself.  He is expecting to be like a native speaker in a relatively short period of time, and while I understand the desire, I am encouraging him to take off some of the pressure.  As you can tell in his letters, he is a hard worker, he studies a lot and he is very determined.  I love that about him.  It is a trait that he shares with his father and it is one of the things that I love about his father, as well. 

When he first sent the email, I guess I didn’t scroll all the way down because I didn’t see the pictures.  Then when my husband pointed them out to me, I scrolled down and there on my screen was the LARGE picture of my son’s face just staring back at me.  Instant tears.  It was like I had him right in front of me for a brief moment.  I love it! 

When I saw the pictures of his piso (apartment), I was impressed by how clean it was.  So, I sent him a quick response to him email – knowing that he was still online – and I commented on how clean things looked and wondered if he would be bringing some of those skills home.  He responded.  He said:
“Thank you momzee. I am definitely glad for all the cleaning I did back home because I am definitely the best at cleaning dishes. I can't stand a sink full of dishes especially when there are none left it use. Lol!

Well, it looks like I did something right in raising him.  That made me so happy to hear. 

In one of my emails to him I reminded him that Christmas is only 98 days away! 🎄In 98 days I will get to hear my son’s voice.  I am SO EXCITED for that day.  Reading his letters is wonderful.  It helps me to feel connected to him.  Seeing his pictures and his face is FaBuLoUs!!!! I miss that face so much and it’s like he is here with me.  But hearing his voice…!  That is gonna be the thing that warms my heart.  Especially if I can hear his laugh.  And if he can manage to get out a My Little Pony scream…It will make my day for sure.  (For those who don’t know…Alexander has the best high-pitched ‘girl’ scream out there and he is a major fan of My Little Pony, so he does that scream when it comes on.  Hahaha!)

As you can tell from his words, he loves the letters.  All missionaries do.  By this time next week, we will have 3 elders out from our ward (neighborhood church group), so take the time to write to a missionary this week.  All it takes is a card and a stamp and it will make their entire week bright! Every missionary has low moments.  Every one of them has days that seem to drag on.  Every one of them longs for a letter in the mail.  So, make a missionay’s day and drop a letter in the mail. 💌

If you would like to write to my son, please do so at this address:

Elder Alexander J. Maybury
Spain Barcelona Mission
C / Calatrava 10-12, bajos
08017 Barcelona
Spain

All letters up to one ounce will cost one international stamp = $1.15.  (Note: a card will be covered by one stamp)



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