Wednesday, October 4, 2017

Mataró – Week 10…It’s flying by


Hey momzee! 

How are you?!

Wow, this week has just absolutely flown by for me!!!! I have been trying to do want you have said and not focus on the time or anything. Only on the work.  And everything just went by so smoothly, as in time wise. I can’t believe it's Monday already. But that's not my point about the time. My point is that when I just focused on doing the Lord's work and forgetting myself, then everything was just bliss, it seemed. 

 The miracle I saw this weekend was when I did an internship with Elder Perry from Girona. Since we were in my area, I did the planning and taking charge of the day. But I found that the more that I tried to make plans and keep them, and be a leader and work hard, the more I wanted to do the work. I felt a much greater need teach people. I started walking faster, trying to teach everyone and looking for the next person to contact. It was an amazing feeling. It was a true blessing to me.

So, news from Spain. I guess the elections are done with for having Cataluña separate from Spain. I don't know what has happened but I'm guessing no separation is going to be possible. President Dayton did warn us of possible events and how we should be prepared to stay in piso for a couple of days. I was all prepared but I didn't feel that anything was going to happen. I felt that the Lord would watch over us and he definitely has. I prayed for this and my prayers have continually been answered. There may be more protests or events and we will watch for those and we are prepared to stay inside if we have to.

I bought some new things today. Some sweats and a long sleeve workout shirt for my excercise and comfort. Really cheap too. I'll send some pictures next week of how I look. So, we officially have all 4 beds in one room. My companion and the other Elder like to have to talk at night, but I hate it because sleep is precious to me. And I will take every advantage I get of it. But they wanted to do it and I'm just like, "As long as I can sleep then I am fine". My bet though, is that it won't last long. But I'm not a betting man so let's see what happens. 

So I have enacted a plan. My reading the Book of Mormon plan. If I read 3 chapters every day, then I will finish by November 28th. Of course, this is in Spanish by the way. And I have noticed that just reading is not enough for a language study. So I basically take the 1 hour for lunch and I mix it with my study time. So I eat for 30 minutes and study for 90 minutes. I like it so much better this way. Having a plan really helps. It's nice to have a goal. But we need a plan to help us reach that goal, otherwise a goal is just a desire. Elder Ballard said something like that. 

General Conference was so amazing. It was hard to listen to it in Spanish but I re-watched it in English. The talks were so my fantastic. Elder Uchtdorf’s about Light was superb. I love talks about Light. I made my own super character that had light abilities.  Hahaha.  Not recently, but when I was younger (16-17). I'm not ashamed. But one of my favorite talks was by one of the seventies, Elder Richard J. Maynes. It was when his dad said, "Son, never sacrifice your integrity. Nothing is harder to get back once you compromise it. Don't do it!" I loved that so much. Our integrity is how we show the Lord our willingness to follow his will or not. 

I will get all my mail either next Monday or at Zone Conference. At Zone Conference, they deliver everyone's mail in the Zone there. But I am close enough to the mission home that I can travel on Preparation Days and grab it. I love Isabella’s pictures. I accidentally sent her birthday letter in the Mail already. On the back of the card inside, I drew the Spain flag and didn't finish coloring it, hence, I “accidentally” sent it (before I finished it). But hopefully it will be there before her birthday. 

I love you all so much. Keep the emails coming!!!! I love them. It fills my heart to know that you all are being blessed. It's hard for me to think of myself of being worthy to serve the Lord. I sometimes wish I could invoke the powers of heaven or have visions in the night time. But I remember that those who believe after a sign is given are of little faith and not worthy for the Kingdom of God. But to know that everyone is being blessed rests my heart. I am having so much fun here. Not every day is a piece of cake, but it's where I want to be because it's where the Lord wants me to be. And nothing makes me happier than doing the will of the Lord. 

I love you all so much. I pray for you daily. I never forget your love for me and the examples you have set and the guidance you have given me. I wish I would have listened to you and dad more often. You truly do know what is best for us. I pray for [my siblings] every day. … I remember a talk in General Conference one time where it was said that after 15 years of relevant prayer and fasting, that his sister came back into the Church, and has received several callings, is married in the temple with a beautiful and successful family. So we never give up faith and we never give up hope and we never give up praying.  Prayers work.

I will talk to you all next week.

CON UN FUERTE ABRAZO DE MATARÓ ESPAÑA,

Elder Maybury


FLASHBACK:  This was when I was in the MTC and got to play soccer almost every day.

All 4 beds. Mine is on the far right. Ain't no way I'm sacrificing anything or moving.



Apparently here are more than one different types of Rubic's cubes. I have solved the triangle one. But I don't even try the other ones. 



Just for fun! 


I love you all! 



What a joy to read my son’s letters each week.  And even more so, to see his development and strength.  It is probably one of the greatest joys a parent can have – to see their child grow and develop in good and positive ways and to see them happy.  I am loving the change that has taken place over our son these past 3 weeks.  Yes, he was having a difficult time in the beginning when he first arrived in this area.  Then he was having a difficult time with the language.  I decided to give him some counsel about that.  I told him that if he was so focused on making the language perfect (in his eyes), then what else was losing his focus?  In other words, if he gave over his energy to worrying about the language, then something else would not get the attention it deserved.  So, I encouraged him to let go of the desire to speak it perfectly by week 15 or month 4, and to just put his feet to the ground and go out and work every day.  I promised him that not only would his time/days go quicker, but the language would come easier.  It makes me smile that he is putting my counsel to the test and he is doing just that.  It looks like it is helping him to make a very important transition. 

It made me smile to see that he is happy working and serving.  Of course, this is the child that I have always known.  As a young child, he was never too difficult – he had his moments here and there – and as a teenager, he was generally a pleasant child, willing to help.  But the past 1-2 years were the formative years.  He really started to blossom and grow and develop.  And this past year has been a beautiful insight into the type of servant of the Lord and man he has the great potential to become.  The past 2-3 weeks, I have seen the vision of the missionary that I knew he would be.  My son is not perfect, but he has a heart of gold.  He is loving, giving, kind, dedicated, and he is a hard worker.  You can see this in his own words, where he wants to work hard each and every single day.  This is not only a blessing for himself, as it will help him through difficult moments that will still come on his mission, but it is a blessing to his companions and the people of Spain.  Sometimes, in order to truly serve people, you need to let go of all of your weaknesses.  I can see that he is starting to do that.  He is letting go of trying to perfect them himself and he is embracing them and calling upon the Lord to help make them a strength for His purposes.  I am proud of my 19 year old son.

His testimony strengthens my own. 

His example is an example to me. 

His determination helps me to keep moving forward. 

I am forever grateful to my son for this decision he made to serve the Lord for 2 years.  He now only has 20 months left.  It can seem like a long time left, but I am excited for the growth that will come across the next 20 months because I am truly inspired by how he has grown and developed over the past 4.  It’s gonna be great to watch him grow!

Just a little bit about the “revolutions” in Spain.  As he had mentioned in a previous email, the state of Catalonia, wants to separate themselves from Spain and become their own country.  They held some elections just recently regarding this decision.  The king of Spain has called for unity; however, the people of this area continue to protest and what their independence.  The area of Catalonia, includes my son’s area of his mission.  A lot of the protests and clashes with police are happening in Barcelona, just 10 minutes from my son, but the people in his area are vocal, as well.  The missionaries in these areas have been cautioned to stay inside their apartment during certain times of the day or during certain events (ex: planned protests), and they are to never get involved with any of these events.  As my son mentioned, he prays specifically for their safety and they have felt safe.  Just this past weekend, however, tensions have risen and there are have been more clashes with the police.  So, once again, seeing Barcelona Spain in the news has not brought good feelings for his family so far away.  I DO pray for his safety and the safety of all of the missionaries in that area.  We KNOW he is being blessed and watched over. We continue to hope and pray that there will be a peaceful resolution to this current issue in Spain. 

UPDATE:
Catalonia will declare independence from Spain within days (from Tuesday). They said about 90% of the 2.3 million who voted were in favor of independence.

Catalonia is Spain’s richest region and has its own language and culture. It said that Spain’s Caixabank, Cataloni’s largest lender, reassured bank customers that their deposits are secure from the growing crisis.  “Catalan banks are Spanish banks and European banks are solid and their clients have nothing to fear”

Spain’s Banco Sabadell, the country’s 5th largest bank with a large business in Catalonia, also attempted to calm jitters. Both banks have seen their share price fall in recent days amid the turmoil.

These are the areas/regions that are part of Catalonia.  See MATARO in blue on the coast near Barcelona.  These areas will now be separate from the country of Spain.  What this actually means for the missionaries there remains to be seen.  


But beyond all of this, I am happy that my son is happy and that he loves the work and that he is having an enjoyable time (amid some ups and downs). 

As always, thank you for supporting our son.  He can definitely feel your prayers.  Please continue to pray for him.  Thank you.

If you would like to send him a note or a card, please do so at this address: 

Elder Alexander J Maybury
Spain Barcelona Mission
C / Calatrava 10-12, bajos
08017 Barcelona
Spain

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ps: My favorite line of this ENTIRE letter was this: "I wish I would have listened to you and dad more often. You truly do know what is best for us."  Awww....that sentence actually brought a tear to my eye.  




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