Monday, May 13, 2019

Cartagena – Week 3, 4, and 5 … Working hard and the time is ticking away ⏰



April 29th
Hey everyone, how are things going for you all. As you can tell by the header, I have recognized that I don't have that much time left being a missionary, but that doesn't mean that God doesn't show himself to me by the miracles he gives me any less. So let's talk about what happened this week. 

One of the miracles that we saw was that a family of recent converts is doing super well after a time of inactivity. They are coming to church (first week was when I got here) and they have many friends. We love them alot and they are already helping us with the missionary work! Yay! 

Some interesting stuff happened this week. One was that we visited one of the most ghetto places I have ever seen in my mission. Oh my goodness, you could tell that it was on a whole different level. Would never want to visit that place again just for passing by. But we had to find some people there so we went with excitement, determination, and a dash of bravery as well, haha! 

We also passed by this one lady told us not to visit her house again because she took her name off the church records and her families as well. It was sad, but she did offer us a glass of water which was a nice thing. 

We have been trying to clear the names of the member list for a while now. A lot of people don't live her anymore as expected, but quite a few say to us that they won't come back to church. It breaks my heart because they don't know what they are missing out on. And I fear that it will be too late for them. President Nelson spoke a bit about it saying that "Time is running out". I wish there was something more that we could do for them. Sigh. 

During soccer for sports, we played with some other kids, around the ages of 10-14. It was fun to have a game. It was mostly for fun, but I sometimes find myself getting worked up to much and demanding perfection when I can't even give perfection from myself. Its a comtasmt battle that I have to work on, butmi know that in will get it down someday. 

That's pretty much it, nothing to exciting happened this week. Well it all just comes and goes. I will say though that I am getting super sore from the gym, haha. Couldn't even lie down without moaning, haha. I did get a haircut though. I knowmloke like how I did when I was 14 years old! Fun stuff. I love you all. I hope you have a super week filled with love and cherished moments. And that you can continually work to being the best you that is possible! I love you all and keep the faith! 

Love Elder Maybury 

Elder Benedict and I looking like studs


Cartagena at might (just a part) 


First day at the gym. Its a work in progress. 



Feeling good!  Talking to my mom :o) 





May 6th
Hey everyone! How has your week been?! I hope it went by faster than mine because mine seemed to take forever, haha! 

It's been pretty relaxing this week, I guess. We have been working hard with the returning members and trying our best to attend to their spiritual needs. So, it would sound like with all the work that we are doing, it would go by fast right? Yeah, so would I. But the thing is that I have been looking at this clock that I have set up on my tablet to tell me how many days I have left. And at first it was great, but then I got too carried away with it and it made the week super long. So, on Wednesday or Thursday I said I wasnt gonna look at it until today and it made everything go by a lot faster. Haha! 

There's not too much to tell this week. I have been trying to practice the ukulele more often so I can just sit down and play a song when I want from memory. But it will all be worth it right? 

We went to this other city on the outside of Cartagena. It wasn't a hot day but being in the sun for 2-3 hours puts a burden on you. We went around passing the points there and we figured out that we had just missed the bus. We looked up the schedule and it would come in another 30 minutes. I luckily had some pistachio nuts with me to eat. But it felt like an eternity waiting for the bus. And the bus stop was just on the side of a road without any bench or sign. The bus came and we found out that our bus card didn't work for the distance of the area that we were in. I luckily had some change with me so we could buy two tickets to get back home. If not, I think we might have walked to entire way back or taken our money and waited for 45 minutes to an hour for the next bus. So, we're were blessed. 

This past Sunday was the fast and testimony meeting. There was a baby blessing as well which is always good. The members were excited for the couple and the fact of having a baby in their ward. It's one of the greatest visible examples that God is there and does love us, by when a family has a little child. But after the meetings, and interesting and fun thing happened. The ward and a "Break-the-Fast" lunch. It was good to see members there and that we could all be together. I liked it alot actually. 

We are still working hard with the returning members of the ward. There are many people to minister to and it is one of my favorite things to do as a missionary. But other than that, we are still trying to find people to teach and clear the member list of people who do and don't live here. 

For preparation Day, we kept it mostly relaxed. We went to Carrefour which is like a Spanish Wal-Mart, and then ate at Burger King. We also went to the gym and had a good work out session. It was leg day today. I can't wait to be so sore tomorrow 😄(sarcastic)😑. Haha! 

We also had a Family Home Evening on Sunday night. We talked about agency and the 4 things we need to have it, which are: 
1) Power to Choose 
2) Opposition 
3) Laws 
4) Knowledge of Good and Evil 

We also talked about Moroni 7 which is a great chapter! We read 1-20, 33 which talks about giving good gifts, the light of Christ, faith, and knowing good from evil. 

Well, that's about it for this week, the week is starting again but the time winding down. But it doesn’t matter because I know why I am here and  what I am supposed to do. I love you all, I hope you have a great week and remember to keep the faith! 

Con Amor, Elder Maybury 

Waiting for our bus


A Family Home Evening


Another Family Home Evening with members


"Break-the-Fast" Lunch with members



A flower 


Feels like the wild west 


Service project - painting a house





May 13th
How is it going for you all!? Our week was great! 

The miracle of this week was that I was feeling a bit sick, and we came in from Language Study. I really wanted to sleep, but I knew that I needed to study. So, I said a prayer to God asking that if I would do my language study well, then he would bless me with strength and energy to finish off the day positively, and He did bless me because I did my studies! 

Let’s see, this past Thursday we had Zone Conference! Wow, it was so good!!! Many good lessons were given, and we had several missionaries share their thoughts on the topic: "What the Lord has Taught Me". I was one of them because it is my last Zone Confernece. I accidentally spoke for about 15 minutes! 🙃 I was only going to speak for 5 minutes, but you know what?! I am so stinking tired of missionaries being uptight about the time. A missionary is basically saying goodbye to everyone because he or she is going home, and you can't cut them some slack in the time???  Yes, I admit I spoke a bit longer, but they told another sister missionary to cut it short. To that I say I'm gonna talk to your bishops so when you come home you are only allowed to speak for 3 minutes! Take that you punks!  SIGH!!!  Anyway, other than that, everything was great! I got to see a lot of the missionaries that I knew and say hi. It was fun. We ate Papa John's for lunch and me and Elder Benedict suffered for it. It did not sit well in our stomachs, hahaha. But we are better now. 

I had the blessed experience of finishing the Book of Mormon in English again and marking all the references of Jesus Christ. It was and amazing experience. I said a prayer to Heavenly Father to ask if it was true, and I got the response that I already know that it is true. And I am happy about that response because it means that I have worked hard for my testimony and I know about the Book of Mormon so surely that I could never deny it, nor would I ever do it. So, it was a happy moment for me. I add my testimony that the Book of Mormon is another testament of Jesus Christ, and that as we read it often, with true intentions to understand and become better, our relationship with Jesus Christ with strengthen and become a firm foundation for our faith and will guide us and protect us in the future. 

On Friday, it was a relaxing day. Well, better said, we didn't have to travel as much as we did for Zone Conference which was about 1 1/2 hours in a car. Anyway, on Saturday we took a bus to go to Los Alcázares for interviews with Presidente Galli. I didn't have mine because I will have mine on my last day. We almost missed the bus to get back home though, hahaha. After that, we visited some people to go teach and everything went well. 

On Sunday we had Stake Conference. The elders from Huercal-Overa took us in their car. We got there early because my companion wanted to see a lot of people form the wards because he has been serving in the stake for quite some time. It was good to see him meet with a bunch of people. I was able to see Roberto (Elder Salazar – my companion from the Marratxí again and I met his family. It was super fun. We were also able to give a blessing of comfort to a member. I love that even though we were far away from our area, and in a different setting such as Stake Conference, we were still able to use the priesthood power to bless the lives of God's children. It’s the best to be a missionary. 

This Monday (today), we all went to Murcia! We had our district council there and then we changed to go hike to Fuensanta, I believe that's how you spell it. It’s like a cathedral-type thing. We had fun going up there and it was a blast. We all ate lunch together and took some amazing photos. I can't wait to show you all of them! We then came back to the city and tried to play volleyball, but the court was already rented out until 11pm, so we went back to the church to write and play some soccer, haha. We are always playing soccer. On, and Roberto was with us as well so it was great to pass the time with him again! 


Answers to questions...
In your triathlon with Joshua, what sport did you choose?
I think I chose soccer, you and dad will have to pick the 3rd one or it will be a raffle or something like that. 
Do you remember that we need to choose your classes on June 5th?  
Ok, we will do it together. Thanks for helping me! 😍
Are both your shoes torn up or just one pair?
Both are, but I have super glue and I will be buying a new pair as well. 
Do you still have your camera?  Take as many pictures as you can – even if you don’t send them over to us.  Just take pictures. 
I have to use it more often, I do have it though.
Where are you in your Book of Mormon reading now? 
I finished the Book of Mormon, I am now reading in 2 Corinthians
How many times have you read the Book of Mormon all the way through?
I think I have read it 5 times on my mission and once before. 

Well, that was about all of it to tell, we had fun time this past week and I hope you all have a great week as well!  I know it's kind of short email this week, but those were the major things for the week.

I love you all I'll see you next time! 

Con Amor Elder Maybury 

With Elder Vaughan




Eating some ice-cream 


I was writing down some notes after my prayer, but it looks like I fell asleep, Haha! 


Picture of our group after our hike in Murcia! 









Well, as the time ticks down, the emails get shorter and shorter.  Hahaha.  It’s quite alright though.  Missionaries are busy and I love that he still writes and puts some detail in his emails home. 

Of course, we all were able to talk with him on Mother’s Day and that was wonderful.  He had no time limit this time and so he spent ½ an hour talking with Isabella, Joshua and James.  And as a my Mother’s Day gift to my mom, I was able to FaceTime her so she could spend about ½ an hour talking with him, too!  Of course, he was also able to say a quick hello to Daniel.  So, it was nice for him to see everyone.  I then had a chance to talk with him and we talked for an hour.  Wow!  I am always surprised at how long he likes to talk to me.  I had responsibilities at church with helping to set up the Mothers Day luncheon with the other members of our Relief Society presidency, but my kept saying, “Oh, one more thing…” Before I knew it, an hour had passed.  How can I deny him “one more thing”. 


It was FABULOUS to say, “I’ll see you in 2 weeks!!!”  It really bring instant joy to my soul.  He did ask, of course, if my hug was going to take 10 minutes.  Hahaha.  I assured him it would not take 10 minutes, but it might linger. 

The official countdown is 15 more days!!!!

He will be returning to Salt Lake City.  Hugs will abound! 


He will be speaking on two separate occasions.
  • UTAH:  He will speak in our ward (Riverside 2nd) on Sunday, June 9th at 11:30am.   We will be having an "Open House" here for visiting, as well. Details TBD.
  • CALIFORNIA: He will speak in our "home" ward (Hurley) on Sunday, June 16th at 9am.  Yes, that is Father's Day weekend.  What a treat!!!!  There will be an Open House for visiting with him later that day at the Juarez/Peterson residence (1332 Rowena Way).  4pm to 7pm.  Drop by before or after your Father's Day lunch to visit, give hugs, and wish Alexander well on his next adventure!  College!  He would LOVE to see you!!   


My son is definitely eager to finish his mission STRONG and to work every day that he has left.  He LOVES his mission so much!  If you have a spare minute, PLEASE WRITE TO HIM.  At this point, we cannot send any more mail to him, as it might not get to him before he leaves, so EMAILS ONLY

All the missionaries got new email addresses, so please make sure you use this new one:  alexander.maybury@missionary.org


He may or may not respond to you, but he reads them all!  And he is grateful to receive them. 


As always, THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT FOR OUR SON!  We love and appreciate you too!  

I appreciate you



Friday, April 26, 2019

Cartagena – Week 1 and 2…My final area and I love it here! 🥰



April 17th

Hey, hey, Hey! How is it going everyone?! I am sorry that I didn't send an email last week. Super busy and without Wi-Fi. We were in Andorra, but I'll talk about that in a bit. So, I am very happy that I can write and email this week. 

So, the news is that I am getting transferred. I am going to Cartagena. My new companion will be Elder Benedict. He is in Elder Peck' s group, so he is one transfer behind me. I am pretty excited. I don't know what to expect but whatever comes, I will be embracing every part of it because the mission is too good to miss!!! 

Answers to questions... 
When was the last time you cried?
The last time I cried or about to cry was when I was saying good-bye to the members. Saying good-bye to a youth was really hard. And then in another moment, I was sitting in a visit saying good-bye and I was just looking around and I got emotional because I have been treated so well here. I have felt and received so much love and I have been so blessed to be serving here in Lleida. 

Last week, you worked on the characteristic “faith”…how did it go?
Working on faith went well. I thought about it a whole lot more than what I was thinking. And it's helped me shape my actions according to my work on faith. 

When was the last time you gave a blessing?
We gave a blessing of comfort to a member. I love giving blessings so much. 

Will you please stop drinking Coke?  Haven’t I taught you better?  *LOL*
Yeah mom. Your right. I'll stop drinking it. If it's the only thing that members have, then I will drink it. But I will drink juice or water first. Promise. 

How did you see the hand of the Lord in your work this week?
We saw the hand of the Lord by helping us get to our train on time (for transfers). We woke up late didn't finish packing, but still got to our train on time. I always have the Lord with me, and I'm a fool if I don't thank Him for it. Not a day goes by that I don't feel his love. 

Saying goodbye to the members was really difficult. Well, I mean you get used to it, and I don't really cry any more. But when I got here, it was winter time with a whole lot of fog, coldness, and occasional rain. If any of you know me, I prefer the summer. So, I was kinda miserable and not enjoying it. As I tried to be a trooper, I came to see a beautiful city with lots of opportunities for me to grow and try new things. Members are like another family to me, and a part of me will stay here when I get on that train to leave Lledia. 

So last Tuesday we went to Andorra for preparation day and district council. We had the meeting in the Southwicks home who are the senior couple serving in the city called La Seu d' Urgull. Then we all got changed and went on a fun adventure! We saw the people practicing for the Olympics. They were kayaking. It was really interesting to watch. We then went to another part of town, we visited a park where there are sculptures of animals, dinosaurs, mermaids, statues of people and building, and the birth of Jesus. It was all really neat! We then went to a higher place up in the mountains and could see a whole lot of Andorra. The view was breath taking. We got a lot of good pictures! 

We then went to the church and wrote for only a little bit. Well better said, we all did video calls home. So, no one was writing, lol! As we went back to Andorra (us elders), we were passing through the border and the man stops us. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. We pull over. The ask us why we are coming to Andorra, and where did we come from, and that sort of stuff. One elder didn’t have any documentation because he lost his wallet. That was BAD!  So, there was the risk of going into Andorra, but not coming out. We would be stuck. Long story short. We drove through, spent the night there, and thankfully got back into Andorra. We had to go to the police station so he can get his papers underway again. Or something like that. 

Then we went back to Lleida had exchanges, and Elder Miller and I had to go to Andorra again to pack the elder’s bags. It's a 2-hour and 30 minute car ride. Snap! I did that several times in 2 days. But thanks to a loving Heavenly Father who knows us personally and watches over His children, we were protected and everything went the best was possible. Thank you Heavenly Father! I love you! 

Hermana Delange invited me to sing in her song. It's really good. She needed a male voice, so she asked me, and I felt honored. The thing is that she can sing SO GOOD! So next to my voice I sound like a bear who's got a cold. But it turned out really well so I'm glad I was able to have that moment. 

Packing my bags was a nightmare! I didn't do it until the night before I left. The night turned into the morning and I was so tired. I don't know how but I keep acquiring more items than I want. I didn't go to bed until 4:30-5:00 am. Then I woke up at 7:15. Decided to lie down for a moment which made me fall asleep for another 30 minutes. I woke up at 7:45 and still had to pack the final items. My train left at 9:00am and we had to drive over there. We didn't leave piso till 8:30, had a challenging game of Tetris with the suitcases, and one of the elders sped us over there in the car so we made it on time. But wait, the fun doesn't stop there. 

As I was passing my items through security, one of my bags got stopped because of a small sword I bought in Logroño almost 1 1/2 years ago. I don't know why they decided to stop me now since I have always taken it with me without a problem. Sigh. Whatever, I'll pick it up later. 

Oh, then we almost missed out train to get to our areas. I am with another elder right now who is going to Murcia. We have to travel from Barcelona to Madrid, then get on another train to get to Murcia. Then I have catch bus or something to get to Cartagena. I'm sure my companion will be waiting there for me though. But anyways, we are on the train to get to Madrid, so we are doing good so far. 

I am so tired right now, it's not even funny. I'm going on about 3 hours of sleep right now and I definitely feel it. I didn't get to say good-bye to everyone I wanted to, but I will be back before they know it, lol. 

Oh, on Monday night, Rene and his family made his Picce Machu (Pea-kay Mah-Choo) and it was huge and so good. We all got big stomachs after that and one of the hermanas burped out loud by accident! It was so funny! My companion and I laughed so hard that we almost threw-up our dinner. The moment was priceless. Then we played a little UNO and called it a night. 

I almost forgot to say that we went to the bowling alley for my going away party. It was fun, we played some games, won tickets, and enjoyed ourselves. 

Well that's about it for these two weeks, or what I can remember of it. I have loved being a missionary and I can't believe that time is almost running out. It is truly one of the greatest blessings I have received from Heavenly Father. I don't want to waste a single moment of the precious time. I love you all! I hope you have a great week and remember to keep the faith! 

Con Amor Elder Maybury 

 Some of the wonderful people and families I met and served in Lleida.


















April 22nd

Hey everyone! What a week it has been. We are on the countdown now on the mission, but I hope to make every minute count. 

So, as you all know, I got transferred to Cartagena to be with Elder Benedict. AND I LOVE IT HERE! I got here and I could just feel and good presence and that this is where I am supposed to be. 

The miracle this week has been that we were doing calls to try and find people and we were able to set a visit with a man named Emmanuel. He is from Ghana and is very nice, we have already meet with him twice and he is going to make us fufu! I'll explain what that is later below. 😉 

This week it started to rain! I'm in the south! How is it gonna rain HERE! Bummer. But we learned to carry on like we do as missionaries. Well one day, we contacted in the street for 3 hours while it was raining! Man, did we get wet. Haha! But the nice thing is that the piso (apartment) has a not only a washer but a dryer as well. Score!  That is SUPER RARE to have a dryer.  It used to be the hermanas piso but when they got taken out, the elders moved in here. So, I tossed my shoes in and they got dried like I wanted. Only somehow it undid the shoelaces and made the soles start to spilt , but afterwards I put glue on them.  The padding fell off too. Haha, time to get some more glue. 

Elder Benedict is a beast. He knows the area well and the members are good friends with him. He is a good leader as well, and one transfer behind me so he is close to finishing the mission. We sometimes feel trunky but we don't dwell on it. We work hard and do what the Lord has asked us to do. Yay! 

My first Sunday at church was nice! I was able to present myself. I find that the more and more that I do this, I leave stuff out about myself and get quicker to share my testimony. It's almost as if I have forgotten what I did before the mission. I guess when you testify so much, it becomes natural to you instead of saying things about yourself. Now that I think about it, I like it. 😄 

We are cleaning out the member list here. They split the wards so when they did that, all the members that were taken off because they moved or something and then came back on the membership record for this area. So, we are just cleaning the blazes out of that sheet and have gotten over 200 hundred names cleared. There are a lot of returning members here which I like, because it's one of my favorite things to do on the mission; meet with them and help them find their testimony again. 

We are signing up for a gym here. I am super excited because I need to get back in shape faster than normal. Besides, I like the gym as well and will be a big motivator for me to eat healthier. Oh! And speaking of eating, we get fed so much here! We have an eating visit about every day, and sometimes it's more than one on somedays! One of those days was Sunday. We went to the house of a friend that we were teaching, and he made us fufu. Oh man I got stuffed! It is like mushy bread that you pull apart and roll into a ball. Then you dip it into a sauce and eat/swallow it. It's normally good, but it can be nasty sometimes on the account of who you eat it with. So, everyone picks from the same giant ball of fufu. Then everyone dips their little ball in the same bowl of sauce. Then you repeat. It's gets nasty when you see other people's hands go into their mouth or touch their face and then touch the same food as you. It plays a game on your mind, which happens to be the case for me and am immediately lost my appetite. Blah 🤢

We then ate at the house of a member who made and decent amount of food, but we were already full. Oh, and this members daughter is serving a mission. And I know who the daughter is because she was a member in the first ward that I served in, Mataró. So I know his entire family!!  BLESSINGS!!! 

We then had a FHE at a members house where there was food as well! Man, I was dying. But better to die from being full than from starvation. 

Answers to questions...
How do you like your new area?
I love it HERE!

Deets about your companion? 
Elder Benedict is from Layton, Utah. He is 20 years old and is a beast! He also plays the guitar really well and can play the ukulele as well. 

How long did it take you to travel to your new area?
Basically, all day. I didn't get to Cartagena till about 12:00 at midnight

Is there wifi on the trains when you travel? 
No Wi-Fi on trains. 

What is the best and hardest thing about your new area of Cartagena?
The best thing about Cartagena is that it is beautiful, and the people actually say "hi" back to you. The hardest thing has been the constant rain so far. 

What treat can I get you?  Whatccha like?
I would love a Hershey chocolate bar and a Milkyway.

Do you think it might be possible to send me something from your new area?  A letter or post card?  Might be the last one.  I’m collecting them!
Of course, I'm working in them right actually. I must-have to get them in the mail. 

Do you know what is special about this upcoming week?
Well uncle's birthday was on Friday, Easter just happened. So I would have to say that it would be the 1 year anniversary of Uncle Warrens passing OR..... Your 22nd wedding anniversary!!!!  Wow, has it already been 22 years? I will celebrate with you all by doing something. I'm not sure what. But I will also do something for you both when I come back, Haha! It will be a little late, but you can cash it in when you want. I love you both! Thanks for getting married to each other. And for showing me that mission marriages are possible. I can't wait to follow your example. LOL!

I didn't take too many photos this week, but I will make up for it by taking a lot more this next week! I love you all and I hope you have a great week! Keep the faith! 

Love Elder Maybury 

On my way to my new area!


This is after 3 hours in the rain.


Me and my companion, Elder Benedict




This is not the KKK...It's a Pascal (Easter) celebration/parade



Some of the city and graffiti 











Elder Maybury will be returning home on May 28, 2019.  He will be returning to Salt Lake City.  Hugs will abound! 


He will be speaking on two separate occasions.
  • UTAH:  He will speak in our ward (Riverside 2nd) on Sunday, June 9th at 11:30am.   We will be having an "Open House" here for visiting, as well. Details TBD.
  • CALIFORNIA: He will speak in our "home" ward (Hurley) on Sunday, June 16th at 9am.  Yes, that is Father's Day weekend.  What a treat!!!!  There will be an Open House for visiting with him later that day at the Juarez/Peterson residence (1332 Rowena Way).  4pm to 7pm.  Drop by before or after your Father's Day lunch to visit, give hugs, and wish Alexander well on his next adventure!  College!  He would LOVE to see you!!   


My son is definitely eager to finish his mission STRONG and to work every day that he has left.  He LOVES his mission so much!  So, I would continue to ask of each of you...PLEASE WRITE TO HIM.   He NEEDS to hear those encouraging words from those that love him and have been cheering him on from home.  I asked him if anyone wrote to him this past week.  He got a couple from family *Thank you*  Sadly, that was all.  Hmmm....let's see if we can do better this week, mmkay? 

All the missionaries got new email addresses, so please make sure you use this new one:  alexander.maybury@missionary.org


He may or may not respond to you, but he reads them all!  And he is grateful to receive them.  

Right now, he is so far from the mission home, that he will only receive mail one more time (around May 11th).  So, if you would like to mail him a card, you may do so at:

Elder Alexander J. Maybury
Spain Barcelona Mission
C/Calatrava 10-12, bajos
08017 Barcelona
Spain

Thank you all for your continued support of our son.  Just about one month to go!!!  This momma is HAPPY!!!!