Friday, February 23, 2018

Pamplona - Week 1…I got transferred!!!



Hi momzee, how are you doing today?! 

Wow, so let me just start off today by a saying that I did get transferred! I am in Pamplona right now with my good friend and Elder, Elder Eiguren! We are from the same group (from the MTC)! It's really funny because we said we were going to be companions someday in the mission and now here we are! Haha! We are super excited and pumped to get working here in Pamplona. From what I know, we have a baptism this week, the ward that I am in, Pamplona 1A is the ward where **la mujer de uno de mis maestros en el CCM, SUS padres están allí, muy interesante. ¡Y porque Pamplona está en el misma estaca de Logroño, veré las personas de Logroño en dos semanas porque tendremos conferencia de estaca en Bilbao! Super fun! 
Translation**the parents of the wife/girlfriend of one of my teachers in the MTC are here (in my area), very interesting.  And because Pamplona is in the same stake as Logroño, I will see the people from Logroño in two weeks because we will have a stake conference in Bilbao!  Super fun!


Leaving Logroño was a bit hard for me. I did everything I could to fix my mistakes from last transfer and worked hard with the members. I gave my sweat and blood there to redeem myself and work hard for the members and for the Lord as well. Being with Elder Chin Ah You was great and we had lots of fun. Sometimes it was hard but that's expected in every relationship. Es lo que hay. ¡Haha! I am so pumped to be with Elder Eiguren, you all have no idea! Now there are 3 Elders who have served from our group here. Me, Elder Eiguren, and Elder Phillips who started here. 

Miracles from the week. Well, one was the Noche De Hogar that we had at the church Sunday night. It actually turned out to be my despedida (farewell). I personally didn't think I deserved one, but I guess the members did which shows that they accepted my service there, despite the mistakes I made. Man, I love Logroño so much. I really didnt to begin with but now, I don't want to leave. I would sacrifice myself for those members there. Would I live there? No, I like the state's too much(haha), but I would give everything I have for them. 

Another miracle was again on Sunday. I was asked to give a talk! It was about whatever I wanted, so I naturally chose missionary work. I was going to be the first or second speaker, but then they changed and had me go last. So, I was to give a 10 minute talk. But by the end of the first two speakers and the intermediate hymn, I had 20 minutes left to take up! I thought I was going to die. But I did it and I almost gave a 30 minute talk, IN SPANISH!!! Wow, the Lord does answer prayers and works though the week and simple. I remember when I said that I was leaving at the end of my talk, all the heads of the congregation turned up, or at least the ones that weren't looking at me. I cried when giving my testimony. Man, I loved Logroño more than I thought. Did we get baptisms? No, but we sure did work and testify in the name of the Lord. Definitely come back. 


Interesting things have occurred during my time in Logroño.  I will list them out. The first was getting attacked my first day, then running in to him again later that evening. The second thing is getting yelled at, and seeing the man's disgust for us. The next thing was giving besos to a recent converts sister, well, her mother, but not to her. I will explain that soon. Then, getting stopped by a homeless man, who then pulled us in to his shoulders, prayed with us, and then kissed us on the cheeks. So yeah, good things.

Now the besos story. I named an email Besos a while back without explaining why. We met with a recent convert because we had all of the new area. Her sister came in and naturally came in for besos as is the culture (kissing on both cheeks). Well I was surprised and before I could say “no”, I was rubbing cheeks with a Spaniard!  The next time, we passed by, only her mother was there. After shaking hands with my companion first, I shook hands with her, and when she shook my hand, she pulled my arm and said, "Dame besos cariño." (Give me kisses honey).  Yep, I'm a lady killer. Then on Sunday night, everyone was leaving and we brought *J*, the recent convert, with us. Well, as I was saying goodbye, I gave her a handshake, and realizing that I, a guapotone, (majorly handsome guy) would be leaving her, she tried to give me besos as well, but I finally got it down and said that we can't do it because we are missionaries. Hahahaha! But all that is over now. Chapter 14 Flirt to Convert. Not canonized by anyone. Don't do it. It's false doctrine and only bad things come from it. Jesus Christ says so. Hahaha!

I guess that's mostly it. Not too much else to write I think. Well there probably is, I just can remember any of it, lol. I guess I'll leave you all with a revelation that I received when writing my talk. We have all read in the scriptures, that we will dwell in the mansions of the Father as we prove faithful to Him and endure to the end. Then we read in D&C 76:111: That we shall be judged by our works, receive according to our works, the places which are prepared for us. Then the scriptures say that Jesus Christ has built mansions for us. So, the revelation that I recieved was this, …We are the tools in the Savior’s hands. We can choose to keep God's commandments and hold together in the Lord’s hands, or we can choose to break God's commandments and not be the hands of the Lord. We are the ones who decide if we live in a mansion, or a shack. To me it was very profound and insightful on the decisions I make and do. 

I am glad that you enjoyed the letters that I sent. I tried to get them there by Valentine's day to show my love for you all and make it extra special. Also, I felt that you all could use them. 😉 And I believe I recognized a My Little Pony stuffed animal over there (in Isabella’s room). Her name is Rainbow Dash, and just to show that I am an expert in this category. She is a Pegasus because she only has wings. There are 3 main types of ponies. Earth ponies, which are just regular horses. The Pegasus, (sky ponies), and the unicorns, which use magic. There is the rare Alicorns, which have wings and a horn, but they are rarer and are more royalty side. I could give more facts about rainbow dash, but I'll leave you all with that for now. Am I a Brony? Some might classify me as such. I like to think of myself as a My Little Pony expert. Hahahaha!

Anyway, I love you all super lotta much and I can't wait to see you all again!!!! Love you forever and keep the faith!!! 

Love Elder Maybury 




My despedida from Logroño


Some pics of me with some great families and members in Logroño.
I absolutely love these people.








We had a great district of Elders in Logroño.
Yes, we miss the wonderful hermanas who were here before.



This was our attempt to make a cake.  "A" for effort..."F" for taste! 😂





I will miss my companion - Elder Chin Ah Yu



My new companion and great friend from the CCM...Elder Eiguren!
He's tall :)



On the bus to Pamplona...enjoying some cookies! 


I love you all! 



Well, as you can tell, this was a better week for Elder Maybury.  He doesn't like change, but he always adapts to it and he was was sad to leave Logroño, but he is pumped to be serving in Pamplona with his MTC buddy.  It is always hard to leave an area, especially when you have worked hard and have allowed yourself to love and serve the people.  That is a good sign that you are doing the right thing...when it is hard to leave the people.  

If he is in Pamplona for 4 transfers, he will be there during the running of the bulls.  Of course, missionaries can observe from safe places (balconies, etc), but they are never allowed to participate.  What a wonderful cultural experience it could be.  I don't know if he will last there for 4 transfers, as most Elders are transferred after 3...but, you never know! 

In this email exchange that I had with him, I could tell he was happy.  It is a wonderful thing to know your children are happy.  I know last week was hard for him, but it is wonderful to see him bounce back and find the good in the experiences he is having.  There are rare occasions where I will be online at the same time as him and we can email back and forth, and this week was one of those weeks.  He made me laugh so many times.  Especially when he told me about the cake that he and his companion tried to make.  I remember when his father also made a cake while on his mission.  Again, I would say the scorecard was "A" for effort and "F" for taste, especially since the cake wasn't cooked in the middle. 😂😂😂  I LOVE that he tried, though!  

I also know that my son loves his time as a missionary.  I know that he loves the gospel and the work that he does every day.  I know that he is learning and growing so much on a mission - more than he could have done here at home.  I know that he loves the people that he serves.  I know that he loves his companions.  I know that he loves his family.  And I know that he loves his Savior.  

His birthday is in just 13 days.  This will be his first birthday away from me.  I will be unable to hug him.  I will be unable to shake him for his "birthday minute" (he is usually asleep at the time  ).  It will be hard, since our birthdays are just 3 days apart, I like to have lunch with him.  Sigh.

As a mother, the job requirement is sacrifice, almost from the beginning and while it is a sacrifice to have my son so far away from home and his siblings, how could I ever deny him this opportunity to learn and grow as a student of the Lord?  It is a sacrifice that I gladly make for HIS benefit.  When I can see his happy face, or hear it in his words, then I know it is all worth it.

Onward and upward! 

As always, thank you for supporting our son in whatever way you do.  As a family, we feel it.  As a missionary, I know he feels it.  If you would like to write to him, please do so at this address:

Elder Alexander J. Maybury
Spain Barcelona Mission
C/ Calatrava 10-12, bajos
08017 Barcelona
Spain

All letters and cards require one international stamp = $1.15 (up to one ounce)

Reminder: His birthday is March 7th.  If you get a card in the mail THIS WEEKEND, it might still make it to him by his Zone Conference date of March 9th (the only time he gets mail).


Note: I will no longer be posting the names of investigators, recent baptisms/converts or members, as a safety measure.  


Emailed on February 20th






Tuesday, February 20, 2018

Logroño – Week 13 … A tough week



 Hi mom! How are you doing today?! 

Wow, what a week it has been. It has been a very tough week. Our investigators are dropping us, some have lost their fechas (baptismal dates) so there will be no baptisms this week, unfortunately. Sigh. We haven't been feeling very good in the beginning of the week and we aren't finding any one to teach. So yeah, it's been a hard one. Not to mention that transfers are next week and I have no idea if I am staying or leaving and it's killing me! 

So today for Preparation Day, we went to Vitoria to do a zone activity. What a flop it was. It was just the Vitoria District and the Logroño/Burgos district. About ten in total. We were going the play soccer, but some people didn't want to play, the elders from Burgos missed their bus and so we didn't really play at all. We did all get together for Dominoes Pizza so that was fun. Wow I am stuffed from that. Always do. Played a little ping pong so that was good. We will have District Meeting here so we can turn in our tickets (for travel) and get them reimbursed. Our bus leaves at 9:15 from Vitoria so when we get to Logroño at 10:45 we will have to run home. All well, it is what it is. 

I made a little Valentine's day card for Isabella. I made one and lost it which got me super frustrated, but I made another one. That was actually one of my miracles, which was that I didn't break my hand from punching something or someone. I was so mad. But I said a silent prayer, asked for forgiveness and help to recover my composure and the Spirit. And the anger went away little by little, not all at once. It just goes to show you that God requires effort on our part. Yes, he can give it to us immediately, but there would be no lessons that needed to be learned if He did it that way. And I needed to learn a lesson. To work on my patience and not be so messy. So, miracle occurred this week as always. 

We are working with this one family to get baptized and the two times that I have gone, they have given me besos! It comes too quick for me to stop and next thing I know, I just bumped cheeks with some Spanish lady. I'm so disobedient, haha! So, I am working on that, but don’t worry, she was much older.  I have been so tired. I am trying to do my best, and some days I feel good, and the other days not so much. I want to do the best I can, but sometimes it gets so hard and the energy is just drained from your body. It just goes to show how much imperfection there is in me and us and why we need the help of the Lord with us. 


My companion hit a year on his mission with me, so he burned his shirt and I burned a tie since I forgot to do it at my six month mark. It is a tradition for all missionaries, I think that when you hit your 6-month mark in the mission field, you burn a tie.  When you hit the 1-year mark, you burn a shirt.  I don’t know where or when it started, but I have heard all missionaries do it.  But I don’t think the sisters do.  But it was fun and interesting. Made me super trunky but I'm in the process of getting over it. It's tough though. But I'm trying.

Well that's it for right now, my brain is just fried from the week. By the way, I need to learn piano again. I was such a nincompoop for stopping. My desire to play has been reinvigorated or rather the fire is burning stronger than before. Anyway, I love you all, keep the faith and I can wait to talk to you next time. Love you!!!! 

Love Elder Maybury 


Elder Chin Ah You and me burning our clothes to mark our anniversary in the mission field

Me burning the tie - it's one I found in the apartment, so I didn't burn any that my family gave me.  



Our district with an investigator from the other Elders in our district.  He is cool!


Aw, sweet Elder Maybury.  He had a tough week, but as you can tell through the majority of his letter, he finds the good.  He is quick to notice is areas of weakness and works to repent to change them.  I love that about him.  

He also sent home a homemade Valentine card (photo collage) that I sent to all of the family members.  He sure is thoughtful.  Always thinking of others before himself.  I think that is one of the things that I am the most impressed with about him.  He is so thoughtful of others.  He is never stingy.  He shares of his excess easily and he gives without thought of what he could get back.  What a beautiful Christ-like attribute that I wish could be multiplied across the world.

As he mentioned, next week is "Transfers" week and so he gets pretty nervous about it because he doesn't love change...but he adapts to it well.  Funny.  

Thank you for supporting our son in the ways that you do.  Most especially, through your prayers.  

If you would like to write him a letter or send him a card, please do so at the following address:

Elder Alexander J. Maybury
Spain Barcelona Mission
C/ Calatrava 10-12, bajos
08017 Barcelona
Spain

Each letter uses one international stamp = $1.15 (up to one ounce)


Email sent on: February 12, 2018