Saturday, April 7, 2018

Pamplona – Week 7…Transfers, a Princess, a Dog, and a Baptism



Hi mom!!! How are you doing today?! 

Wow, where does the time go? These weeks get shorter and shorter, I'm telling you. So, we had transfers this week, hence me sending emails a day later.  So the news is........I’m staying in Pamplona and my companion is leaving. Yeah, I am a bit sad. We worked well together and loved the people a whole lot. We both did our best and I treasure my time with Elder Eiguren. So, he is going to Ibiza. The area was white-washed so he and another Elder are going to "Open it" again. Pretty interesting. My companion is Elder Vargas! He is a native! So yep, the Lord needs my Spanish to be better. Hahaha! It will be interesting. We are taking over the Hermanas area because they are getting moved to the other ward. So, we have their investigators that they were teaching and everything. But now we have to learn their area and I'm still trying to get mine under control. Lol. But the Lord will help us. He always does. ๐Ÿ˜€ 

Elder Vargas is from Ecuador and he lived a bit in Madrid Spain. He is 23 years old and has an older brother who is married, and a younger sister who is 9 I believe. He said that she is his angel. Awww. Just like how Isabella is my angel. Awwwwww!!!! 

We had to wake up at 5:00 in the morning to get elder Eiguren to the train station by 5:45. So I am pretty tired. Elder Vargas came at 3:30 in the afternoon. 

My miracle for this week was the baptism of [Investigator J].  Elder Patton who taught him before and was able to come up and baptize him and I did the confirmation of the gift of the holy ghost. The spirit was really strong there. It was interesting. I said some things which were a little hard for me to get out, but then I just started speaking as things were just popping into my head and I started speaking more clearly. It was a great miracle since that was my first time confirming someone and the Spirit was very strong.



For Preparation Day, we went to San Cristobal. It's an old prison built by Franco. It was pretty amazing. Except there were some pretty trippy parts that I did not like what so ever. I'll explain. So, you can go around them on the outside because that's where the guards were to watch the prisoners walk – in walking ways – which are about 10-12 feet below. We walked around until we came to a staircase that lowered into the walkway.  Then, we went inside the prison! It was okay at first, until we got to a certain point where there was some brujerรญa. That is witchcraft.  So, you can just imagine what kind you would find inside an abandoned prison. There was a burned-out fire with a red cross drawn on the ground. On the side wall was an upside down red star, the devils star I believe or something like that. We then continued a little further where the staircase led us lower. And there were roses on it.  That means that there was a ceremony or something there. That tripped me out hard core and we were unsure. But we followed where we finally got to the end like 30 seconds later. We then went back up to find the other staircase that went lower and there were roses on that one as well. This staircase turned to the side, so you could only see about 5 feet ahead before you had to walk down to see more. We decided not to walk further. I will say that I got some serious chills. Like we walked in and it was pretty cold. But there were some parts where it was freezing cold and then it wouldn't be. I'm going to try and not dwell on these thoughts.  

We then left and continued to walk around. We went up really high to see a certain house or something. There must have been a recent fire or something because there was smoke in the building, but the walls weren’t broken so not bad. But it was like we just missed it, but a short amount of time. There was fire by like a match but also the aftermath of like liquid nitrogen or something like that. We then went to another tunnel that was by the side and that was a little weird. The whole prison is pretty old so, of course things have fallen and collapsed. But at the end of this walkway underneath the ground, there was a giant broken part, where there were only 4 wood beams left. And off to the side it said that Leslie died here. Which was true because the member who took is told us that he remembers hearing about that. So, we did not cross it. It would have taken us farther down anyway. So, we finished our journey and got some Burger King to eat. We then picked up my companion and here we are now. 

Something that I read in my scriptures today was that in 2 Nephi 10, Jacob talks about the Atonement. And he says that Jesus had to be at Jerusalem because it would have been the only nation that would crucify him. If he was in the Americas or somewhere different, the people would have repented and believed in him. So, the Jews were really the only people that would reject him and kill him, thus, he had to be born in this area, among those people or else the Plan would not have come to pass because there would have been no Atonement. That's my spiritual insight for this email. 


Answers to questions......

Do you know what is happening in 6 more weeks (really 5 ½)?
Mothers day call!!!!!! 

Should I send you a board game or phase 10 since you are all so bored with Monopoly?
I would love to have Phase 10. And a board game if you want to send one. 

How often do you get on Facebook and see my posts?
Is it redundant for me to email you so much if you see my FB posts?
I do see your Facebook posts often
It's not redundant because it's you personally telling me what's happening and I like that when you tell me in your emails to me

Did you hear that they are closing the Spain Madrid MTC? 
I did hear that it is closing, it's interesting, saddening, and I'm ok with it because it's what the Lord needs done at this time

Will you please send me pictures of your piso?  Your room, where you dry your clothes, the kitchen, etc…
I will take pictures tonight 

Are you okay with taking pictures on your tablet or do you have a phone?  Do you want me to send you another camera at some point?
I'm fine with my tablet and the camera here, I don't mind at all 



General Conference was so great. They called two new apostles who are Asian-American and Brazilian. I always feel the spirit so strongly when the choir sings. Whether it's the Mormon Tabernacle Choir or a group of students, it always gets me because I love to sing and improve my singing to sing praises to the Lord. Singing expresses a different way of communication and your testimony. I love it so much because when a song resonates in you, you just want to sing and shout. As we read in the scriptures, the angels are always singing and shouting Hosanna! Therefore singing, to me at least, is a higher way of praising God.  During General Conference, I received an answer to a question that I was pondering. It was fantastic, and it took me a moment to realize it was my answer because I thought that I was already pretty set at it, but I can always improve. So now I need to find how I can apply my answer to my life even more which means trial, progression, and heavenly rewards. 

I love the gospel so much. I would never leave it for I know who my God is. I know His judgement and I know His mercy. He is my King and Lord, he serves me because he is greater than me. I serve Him because I brings me happiness. I love Him forever. 

I love you all and I hope you all have a great day today. I hope you had a great Easters day as well. Keep the faith!!!! 

Love Elder Maybury 

My new companion, Elder Vargas



Adios, Elder Eiguren - It's 5:30AM...we are both tired  ๐Ÿ˜ด





We got a new dog for our piso!  ....April Fools! ๐Ÿ˜„





The Old Prison - Are you spooked too? 







Do you see the smoke rising off the floor in this picture?  *shivers*
What did we just miss?


 The sign says, Military zone, passing prohibited, danger from accidents 


 The Pamplona Elders and a member who took us on this P-day excursion


A Couple Selfies! 




The Daughter of an English Speaking Family - Kids are my specialty! 
I still miss my little princess Isabella


Baptism of Papa J



Well, transfers is always an exciting time.  The question of “will he be transferred or not” keeps the excitement going.  Although we were pretty sure his companion would be transferred, the second most exciting thing is finding out who his new companion would be.  As he mentioned, it is sad when a companion that you have become friends with is transferred.  With some, you find a good working groove and seem to work naturally well together.  I am glad that my son has experienced this for most of his mission.  There may still yet be moments where that is not the case, but I know my son, he will love and serve each companion to the best of his ability, so he does not waste his time on the mission. 


I have prayed that he would receive a “native speaker” as a companion because I know that this would help his Spanish exponentially.  Now, I know that he speaks well and can communicate in Spanish, but I also know that he wants to be better.  Well, this is an answer to both his and my prayer.  He will rise to this challenge and when he looks back and assesses how far he has come in his language skills, I am sure that he will see that he was blessed with a gift. 

This week I have spent a few minutes each day thinking of my son.  Thinking about what he is doing in that moment or wondering how the work is going for him.  I have missed him a lot this week.  It’s not the kind of missing where my heart is breaking, but it is the kind of missing him to where I want to connect with him.  He has been gone now for 10 months.  Some of it has flown by.  Other moments have seemed to linger.  But each week, I see growth in my son.  I see that he is becoming who he is meant to be.  He is shaking off the more adolescent side of himself, the worldly side, …the side the seeks the approval of others.  And in place of it, he is accepting of himself and he is seeking the approval of the Lord first.  It’s a beautiful thing to see. 

Below is a link to the Spain Barcelona Mission blog.  This specific link connects you to a video that was made of all of the missionaries opening their mission call.  They have interlaid it with a talk by Elder Jeffery R. Holland and it is wonderful.  It was a little emotional, of course.  One, to hear this talk in context of missionaries being called to labor in the field, but also to see my son open his mission call again and to see the joy in his face and to hear the joy in the hoots and hollers of the family.  This effort, I believe, truly helps the missionaries to keep their energies focused on where they need to be…as disciples of Jesus Christ.
(Note: Elder Maybury is at minute 5:21 and 15:25)


As always, thank you for your love and support of our family and our son.  Thank you for taking the time to read his weekly emails/blogs.  He tries to write something each week that might be meaningful to those of us who love him.  If you ever have any questions for him, please let me know and we’ll put it in the weekly email.  He has finally gotten pretty good at answering each question we pose. 

If you would like to send him a card or letter, you may do so at the following: 

Elder Alexander J. Maybury
Spain Barcelona Mission
C/ Calatrava 10-12, bajos
08017 Barcelona
Spain

Each letter requires one international stamp = $1.15 / up to one ounce


Emailed: April 3








Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Pamplona – Week 6…Time is flying by!



Hi momzee!!! How are you doing today?! 

Wow, what a week it has been, this whole transfer has been flying by really. It's quite amazing. 

Let's see, so this week we had our district fast for the mission. We fasted as a mission that the hearts of the people would be open to the gospel, we could see more baptisms and the work would progress greatly. Every district has their specific day and ours was this past Friday. We saw some miracles after this fast. We were able to have [investigator J] accept a baptism fecha for this coming Saturday. His family are members, I believe, but he is not. He is Peruvian as well. He seems really excited and happy now for his baptism. Some other miracles were that we got a lot of food from people and we were able to set another fecha for an investigator form the other Elder’s area. We did an Intercambios these days with the fechas so that’s why I am recounting both of them. 
(intercambio = exchange/split with other missionaries / fecha = date)

For preparation day we didn't do too much. We did a split so we could get things done faster. I got a ukulele case and a haircut as well. It's much better now that my hair is shorter. It feels cleaner, more well-groomed, and more like a missionary as well. Haha! We went to the center to this fort. It was pretty.  I was able to take some pictures as well. We then went back and played some cards, black jack and 3's. Some elders want to put in 3 euros for chips, but I don't like the idea of 1) playing for money, 2) losing my money PERIOD, and 3) I was always brought up saying that betting is not looked upon as well or accepted by the church, and 4) mom and dad say no so I always followed their advice, (try to at least). I would much rather buy some chuches (candy) and play with those. Anyway, I'm pretty against it. 

Answers to questions... 
Are you excited to call home in a few weeks?
1. I am super excited to call you all again! Will Dad be there? 
How do you do your laundry?
2. We have a washer at our piso, but we have to dry them outside on a rack
Are you healthy, including vegetables?
3. I am trying to eat healthy. I am making different things to eat. My vegetables could be better but I do well with the fruits. 
Do you know how much I love you?
4. Of course I know how much you love me. I feel it every day! ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ™Œ 

It's interesting to know that I will have 10 months on April 13th. It doesn't feel like I've been out that long. It's just that this transfer has gone by so fast. Right now, Pamplona is a little hard because no one is wanting to meet with us. So, we contact (going out to meet people on the street) a lot, we get people and set up visits, and then they ditch us. And it frustrates me a lot because I want to talk to people. I want to meet with them and share the gospel. But, it's much harder if we can't get into people's houses. But we keep trying. We keep showing up. It's what we as missionaries do. 

Some little spiritual insight that I received from reading my scriptures. The word Testament means 3 witnesses. So, if the Book of Mormon is another Testament of Christ, then there must be 3 witnesses to the Book of Mormon. I have decided that they are Lehi, Nephi, and Jacob. Well there are the 3 witnesses and their testimonies as well. I just realized that. But I read it in 2 Nephi, towards the beginning. And Nephi and Lehi came before Jacob, so I count them as the 3 witnesses. But, I could be wrong as well. I think that Jacob saw or conversed with angels or Jesus in his childhood. Or at least heard the voice of the Lord as well. Lehi tells him that he has seen glorious things in 2 Nephi before Lehi dies. I looked at the footnotes and it goes to Jacob 7 and talks about confessing with the Lord and His angels. So I imagine that Jacob came to know the Lord pretty early on in his life. 

Well, that's it for today. I will send some more pictures of course. I love you all and I hope everyone is healthy. I thank you for your prayers as they are always needed. I continue to fight the good fight as it is the fight of eternal life. I cannot desert the Lord's army. He needs all of us because He wants all of us. Keep the faith. I love you all and will talk more next week! 

Love Elder Maybury

Cannons and Scenes from the castle  








The squad





My selfie for my favorite sister because she asked for a picture just for her! 
I love her so much ๐Ÿ’•






Well, it is always good to hear from my son.  It is good to see that things are progressing, in that they keep moving forward.  Sometimes slowly and sometimes more quickly. 

Each week I ask him what his “miracle of the week” was.  A moment where he saw the hand of the Lord in his life.  I do this to help him train his perspective on being able to see all the different ways the Lord is present and active in his life and in their labors while in the field.  Some weeks they are small and simple and other weeks they seem like specific answers to prayers.  My favorite is when he can see the Lord working through other people. 

Here is just a little bit of my response to him on a couple of the things he wrote about.  One, playing cards/poker/blackjack:

“I am glad you said what you said about the “poker” playing.  That’s a little too close to the line, for me.  I know it might be hard to speak up about it, but when you do, you show the Lord that you will stand for true and correct principles, even if you are the only one doing it.”

This is important because, as members of the church, we are admonished not to gamble.  Playing cards for money, of any sort, mimics the action of gambling and is therefore, not something that should be engaged in.  I appreciate that my son had enough knowledge – from his parents teaching him and his upbringing – as well as being able to pay attention to how this made him feel (not good) and that he responded accordingly.    


Two, the difficult work that they are encountering in their area:

“As for the work being hard in Pamplona…sigh, well…it is requisite that it is hard at times.  Why?  Because it requires you to change your muscles, change your goals, and change your approach to the work.  Believe it or not, missionaries can get REALLY complacent, especially when the work is easy.  So, look at the hard work as a chance to recharge your skills as a missionary.  I know you would love to talk to people - because that is what the mission is all about.  So, I guess this is your seed planting phase of Pamplona.  You had some great time reaping the work of others.  Now go to work and plant the seed for those who will follow.”

This really speaks to how sometimes, as missionaries, our opportunity is to simply plant a seed – or spark an interest – that will be developed and reaped later on.  No matter the work, it matters and it is necessary.

It continues to be a beautiful thing to watch my son grow and develop each week.  I love seeing him happy.  We received a letter in the mail from him this week and he was able to acknowledge his own growth.  He said that he can see it.  Not just as a missionary, but as a person.  He no longer desires the worldly things (nice car, money, etc…), but rather he is most happy about being in conscience with the Lord.  He noted that the other things will come – after hard work – but that right now, he enjoys being connected to the Spirit and connected to the work. 

As a parent, I could not ask for anything more.  He is gaining his own insight.  He is making good decisions.  He is working hard for his personal growth and development.  And above it all, he is humble enough to know and acknowledge that everything he has is from and is for the Savior. 

10 months down and this is his growth!  I’m excited for the remaining 14 months!

Thank you for supporting our son in whatever ways you do.  Through your letters, emails and prayers, he feels uplifted by those who love him. 


If you would like to write him a letter or send him a card, please do so at the following:

Elder Alexander J. Maybury
Spain Barcelona Mission
C/ Calatrava 10-12, bajos
08017 Barcelona
Spain

All letters require one international stamp = $1.15 / up to one ounce


Emailed: March 26