Wednesday, September 26, 2018

Sabadell – Week 2…Getting to know so many great people! 🤗



Good afternoon everyone! How are you all doing?! 

Well it has been an interesting week. We have been visiting some less-actives and trying to pass by them. It's come to some success. I meet a less-active named Alex. He is a good person. He is 19 and is from Paraguay, I believe. He does what we invite him today. I am hoping to meet with him again this week and get him to come to church with us. 

The bishop’s son came home this week. We had a homecoming for him this past Friday. It was really great. You can just look at him and see that he has changed. We put a little musical number together. My companion and myself along with the sister missionaries sang "Soy un Hijo de Dios" (I am a child of God) It went really well. My companion played the piano and boy can he play! He is really good at it so be expecting some musical performances soon! Hahaha! 

We had sports on Saturday and that was pretty fun. We meet with a man who is a good friend of a member and wanting to get baptized. His situation though is very tough for him, so we are all praying for him. 

Sunday was amazing. We were able to introduce ourselves, but I forgot to say my name! What a klutz I am, haha! I was so busy and preoccupied with what I was going to say that I forgot to say the most I portent thing (besides my testimony), MY NAME! All well. We got to eat with Roberlando and Marco Antonio on Sunday. It was like coming home for a moment, at least in Mataró. Haha! Apparently, I am known to them for eating a ton. When Elder Newman was still with Elder Patey here, they came by to eat with them. Well, Elder Newman was eating a lot and Roberlando told him that he eats like Elder Maybury. Lol. What a compliment he received! 🤣 

We met with our ward mission leader and he is a great fellow. He just got out of the hospital for kidney stones. Still has them. But after he left, he was already asking about when we can meet to have coordination meeting. Wow, what a man. There will be a talent show on October 12th! I get to be a part of another one, yay! We are also planning an activity of what life is like in the CCM (MTC). It should be really fun! Wow, this area is so good. I love it here. The members are really nice. There's good young men and young women here which I love because I love being with the youth. It's my favorite thing actually.


Answers to questions...
How was it seeing Roberlando again?
Getting to see Roberlando was amazing! I took a before and after picture 

How was it meeting your new ward members?
The ward is great. I love all of them already. It will take some time remembering their names but I nothing that I can't handle. 

How are things different in Sabadell versus Marraxtí?
We work a lot more with members and visit them a lot more as well. And there are more people to contact. 

What do you all do for service opportunities?
So for service opportunities here, on Wednesdays we help a couple build their restaurant. I haven't gone yet but we will go this week for sure. We also got to an old persons place and take them on walks in their wheelchairs or hold their hands. It's super fun! 

If the Savior walked beside you, what would He say, do you think, about your efforts as a missionary?
I think he would be happy with my efforts. I really tried hard to be focused completely in the work. Can I do better? Yes, but I will get there. 

Is there anything specific that we can pray for for you?
I would ask prayers for our investigators. To help them in their situations and to get in contact with a couple. As well as the some less actives to come back to church. 

Well, that's about it for this week. I can't wait to see what happens this week! Keep the faith and do your best! And the Lord will take care of the rest! 


Love Elder Maybury 

Umm, I think I need a haircut! 


Post hair cut (my companion too!)
(yes, my mom still gives me non-subtle messages about getting my hair cut LOL!)


A few more pictures from Marraxti







A Surprise Birthday Celebration for Sister Turner




Meeting Roberlando again!

(Left: Sabadell / Right: Mataro on his baptism day)




I was so fulfilled by this report from my son this week.  Most other mothers will understand what I mean (and some dads, too), but my son’s JOY and HAPPINESS eek through in his words and in his pictures.  There is a lightheartedness to him that is not inappropriate, but rather an ability to see the good in each situation and hold reverence for other situations. 

To see my son standing again with the man who was his first baptism in Spain…well, it brought a rush of emotions to my heart for my son.  I believe that we are meant to meet certain people in our lives and the reasons for meeting them vary wildly, but usually it’s that they will uplift our life in some way.  I still think about and remember the faces of those that I met and taught on my mission.  I remember their names and I remember their faces and to have the chance to see them again and hug them would be a priceless gift.  The sweet people that I taught and help to come unto Christ while I served felt so familiar to me, it’s like I had always known them.  Many are still in Ecuador and I have heard bits and pieces about them and my heart swells with love for them to know that they are doing well and remember Hermana Juarez who served them for such a short time.  This is why I feel overwhelmed with emotion for my son.  He gets to be a part of another chapter of Roberlando’s life and I know that it is a gift that he didn’t know he needed. 

Additionally, many of you know that my son loves to sing.  He didn’t know he loved to sing until I started teaching him.  I then had him join the choir in our ward.  He didn’t know how to find his note just by listening, but we worked on it.  On a trip a few years ago, he and I drove from California to BYU, so he could attend Rugby camp.  I played a lot of the Eagles (my favorite band).   I taught him how to harmonize using the Eagles’ songs and he learned how to find his note while others were singing.  Over time, you could always hear Alexander singing.  Always.  In the car, in the house, in the shower, walking up to the door, playing with his sister, doing his chores…he just loved to sing.  It is one of the things that I miss the most about him being gone.  

So when he left on his mission, I prayed for him to have opportunities to sing and share his love for music.  Well he has been blessed magnificently with opportunities.  He has sung at almost every single Zone Conference since the start of his mission.  In his last area (on the islands), he was able to join up with 3 other missionaries who also love music – singing and performing.  They have perfected their harmonies together.  They prepared a variety of songs to sing for the members in each of their wards.  These were the four who did the beautiful medley of Disney songs that I posted a couple weeks ago. 

Well, for Elder Maybury’s last Sunday, they were set to perform one more time.  This time, they really stepped it up.  They sang to the melody of “Come Thou Fount” but used the words from the hymn, “Joseph’s First Prayer”.  They had solos, duets, crescendos, diminuendos and sang one verse acapella.  That verse, the final verse, the most powerful, was my favorite.  Of course, I teared up.  In part for the power of the song/message, but also in seeing live and in technicolor the fulfillment of the blessings of my prayer for my son.  I am in awe of his courage and blessing. 

Please enjoy the song.  I have watched it 25 times already.  LOL!



If you would like to write a card or letter to Elder Maybury, you may do so at the following addres:

Elder Alexander J. Maybury
Spain Barcelona Mission
C/ Calatrava 10-12, bajos
08017 Barcelona
Spain

All letters will require one international stamp = $1.15 / up to one ounce


Emailed: Sept 24th



Friday, September 21, 2018

Sabadell – Week 1…I got transferred!!! And the Lord is in the details! 😇



Hey everyone, how are you all doing today?! 

Well, I know that some of you have been wondering about whether I would be transferred or not. Well here is the news. Drumrolls please🥁🥁🥁 

I am getting transferred to Sabadell.  Sabadell is about one hour outside of Barcelona.  So I am now in the Barcelona Zone.  Nice and close to the mission home. 

So, I wasn't too excited to leave. It has been very hard for me to leave this area (Marraxtí). I could call it my other home. I have made a lot of friendships here and the members are like family to me. 

So, this last week has been filled with doing work, but also saying goodbye to people and practicing singing. I was asked to give a talk my last day and we asked to do a musical number as well. I talked about the first 3 lessons that we teach as missionaries, 
1. The Restoration
2. The Plan of Salvation
3. The Gospel of Jesus Christ

I liked it and it felt good to talk about it with all the members about missionary work. We are working on “Baleares 2020”.  That means, that by the year 2020, we want there to be a stake in the islands. So, each branch has to have a certain number of baptisms each year in order for that to happen. 

Then we sang the Spanish version of "Come Thou Fount" and we replaced the words with the words to the Hymn "Joseph Smith's first prayer". It was really good. We did duets, harmonies, acapella. I sang the bass part for the last verse. It was really all very beautiful. I'll upload a video on it when possible. 

Saying good bye to as many people as possible was hard for me. Oh, we ate so much food on my last day. I was stuffed continually! Oh, I also might be lactose intolerant. It's that or the islands are literally killing me. Which is also likely because I was pretty sick for the first two weeks of when I first got here with Elder Salazar. Then the second to last week or so, I got a bit sick as well. It could be the food or the way the ice-cream is made here. I don't know. But this transfer is the transfer where I get in shape! I promise everyone! 🏃‍♂💪🏋️‍♂️

I got a lot of people to sign in my transfer journal as well. It's almost full. I might have to get a new one before I finish the mission. But we will get there when it comes to it. Can't be getting trunky now! I will say that one of the most difficult things was saying good bye to Elder Gomez, Hermana Davis and Hermana Orr. We have sung a lot together and laughed and spent a good time together. I wasn't in their district so I called myself the "adopted child".  Hahaha! But we will all see each other after the mission for sure. Probably at BYU. 

The next hardest thing was getting my bags under the weight-limit, lol. Brother, that was so hard!!!! I tossed clothes away and stayed up till about 1:30am packing, re-packing, being at the point of tears 😭 (just kidding), and then packing again. It killed me. I am so tired though. I got about 4 hours of sleep. We had to get up at 5:00am to get ready and finish everything. The Zone Leaders came by to pick us up. A mission rule is that if we take a train, we have to be at the station an hour early and if we take a plane it's 2 hours early. My plane left at 9:20 so I had the be there by 7:20. Checking in went well and everything. 



Our plane got delayed for about 30-60 minutes. Good thing airports have bathrooms.  LOL.

Anyway, I arrived and picked up my luggage and the other Elders from the office picked us up. We had to wait 40 minutes for a new missionary who is coming from Chile. Then his plane got delayed so that was an even longer wait. But, while waiting, we met a family who is from my ward in Sabadell. It's actually the bishop’s family. Hahaha. They were at the airport picking up their son from his mission (not sure from where). I actually know their other son who I saw in Mataró from time to time. Blessings to bishop’s family from my new ward.

But here is the big kicker for me. And this is the miracle...

When I was in Mataró, we baptized a man named Roberlando. Well, after I left to Logroño, he left to Sabadell. I just found out that he is in my ward Sabadel 1!!!!  My companion told me that he is so excited to see me. I asked how he was doing, and my companion told me that he is preparing to go to the temple!!!! Wow, it brings true joy to my heart. I am almost at the point of tears.  I am happy!

So now about my companion. His name is Elder Newman. He was born in California, in a small town just outside of Los Angeles. His family moved to Meridian, Idaho when he was a boy. He has 1 year and 6 months in the mission. Just from the small time that I have been with him, he seems like a good fella. We already get along really well. He actually reminds me of Zachari Shubin and Caleb Swain so I already love him, hahaha. 

So, this transfer is going to be 5 weeks instead of 6 weeks because President Galli has a Mission President's conference during 6th week and church headquarters asked them to move the transfer up a week. So, this group who will be going home will leave a week early. But next transfer will be 7 weeks long, so it can even back out. 

Well, I am enjoying myself already and I am really pumped to get started working here. I know that the Lord has called me to this place to further his work and design which is what Ivwant to do with all my heart and soul. Help build the kingdom of God and bring joy to everyone by sharing the Gospel with them. 

Answers to questions...
How did you like the packing cubes?  Were they helpful?
They packing cubes are great! They help me keep everything nice and orderly.

Did you get any mail or packages?
I did get some mail. I absolutely loved it. Thank you, young Women! 

What are you looking forward to this week?
I am looking forward to meeting all the members

When was the last time you cried and share why, if you want to?
The last time u cried was bearing my testimony and testifying of the Book of Mormon and saying good bye

How have you become a better person in the past year?
I have definitely become a better person and I am proud of who I am now.  I am more patient and I more humble and I love to serve other people.

Well that's about It! I hope you all have a great week and I love you all! Keep the faith! 


Love Elder Maybury 

Beautiful Marraxtí






Saying GoodBye









Thank you "Young Women" of Riverside 2nd Ward

(Note: the young women of the Riverside 2nd ward put together an "Out of the Blue" box for Elder Maybury.  Everything in it was blue and was meant to bring him and his companion a little bit of fun and joy.)


Leaving the Islands
 Zone leaders picking us up for the airport

 Elder Holbrook and I leaving Palma


 Sigh.  Goodbye islands





In Barcelona - All is Well




My New Companion - Elder Newman



Me and Roberlando (from Mataro)




Well this was a great update from my son!  I absolutely LOVED feeling his energy and love in this email.  As a former missionary, I can tell you that I KNOW how hard it is to leave an area where you have built relationships and where the people feel like your family.  There was a part of me that felt sad for my son because I know how hard it must have been to say goodbye. 

BUT…the Lord is in the details of our lives! 

It literally brings tears to my eyes to hear that the person that was his first baptism in his first area is now in his new ward in Sabadell and is preparing to go to the temple.  Wow!  We always talk about how sometimes the role is to plant the seed and sometimes it is to bear the fruit (of someone else’s work of planting the seeds of the gospel).  In this moment, my son will be able to SEE and continue to the WORK that he began so long ago in his first area of his mission.  It is a rare opportunity, indeed.  The Lord surely was aware of both my son’s and Roberlando’s needs and pathway and putting them back together again is a true miracle that will bless their lives forever. 

Another great little miracle was to be able to meet the family of Bishop (ecclesiastical leader) for his new ward in Sabadell.  These, for me, are little moments where the Lord is showing that He is aware of what is needed, and He softens the pathway to make it easier.  While leaving Marraxtí was very difficult for my son, he has a beautiful energy about serving in his new area and he was blessed with these two immediate mini-miracles for his obedience. 

An interesting moment occurred for me on the morning of transfers.  I had had a strong feeling that my son would be transferred.  Logistically, it seemed to be what was going to happen.  So, I tried to be thoughtful about him during this time.  I felt that as I was going to bed the night before (11pm to midnight Utah time), he would be at the airport.  It seems that was the case.  But about 2am, I woke up with thoughts of my son in my mind.  As I gathered my bearings to figure out what was happening, I looked at my phone (which is on Do Not Disturb) and there was an email from my son, which had been sent only a few minutes before.  He simply said, “Hi mom, I’m at the airport.  I’m going to Sabadell.  I love you.”  I sent back a quick reply and then went back to sleep.  For me, that was a mini-miracle, or touch from heaven. 

You see, many people talk of the “great blessings” that come to the families of missionaries. Admittedly, I was a little excited thinking about the blessings that would come.  But I can attest to the fact that they are generally not temporal (meaning physical things).  For me, and perhaps for others, the greatest blessing that I have received while my son is serving his mission is a greater connection to the Spirit and to my Savior.  And from this comes a greater connection to my son.  I am able to feel and sense when he is doing well and when he is not.  And if I pay attention, especially to when he is not doing well, then I send a message to my son and he reads it and he realizes that he truly is not alone.  We ARE with him and the Lord is paying attention.  This experience of waking up and thinking of my son just a few minutes after he sent me an email is a simple example of what I mean.  It is not a tangible blessing per se, but it certainly is palpable, deep, meaningful and remarkable.    

He sent a little video of himself at the airport.  It’s a short video but it shows that (while he is tired) he is doing well and is happy. 



Thank you all for your love and support of our son.  He feels it.  He is grateful for it.  He loves you all for your love and support of him.  He loves being a missionary and he is growing in ways that were so important for him to be able to do. 

If you would like to send him a letter or a card, you may do at the following address:

Elder Alexander J. Maybury
Spain Barcelona Mission
C/ Calatrava 10-12, bajos
08017 Barcelona
Spain

Each letter will require one international stamp = $1.15 / up to one ounce.

Packages can be sent to the same address.  The best way to send those is via USPS using small padded envelopes and staying under 4 pounds. 



Emailed: September 18th